Hello all :)!
We are still going strong here. Our baby will arrive in the next few months so I'm sure our spanking days are temporarily numbered. It is getting more and more difficult to find a comfortable position for either of us and of course there are the more frequent doctor visits.
Hunter is still fairly content to let me make the call on what implements I am comfortable with as the pregnancy progresses.
One thing we both have noticed that actually caught us a bit off guard is the sensitvity of my skin! Hunter has always said that I have an "iron butt" and that I can take one heck of a spanking. However, since becoming pregnant, we have found that there are a few implements he can no longer use simply because they make me panic with their intensity which is not our goal with DD. It also takes a lot less of a spanking to get my attention which I guess could be attributed to a lot of things. It could be that I'm "growing up" in my DD and am quicker to become remorseful for my actions or to submit to his discipline or it just could be that my skin is much more sensitive and that it just plain HURTS! lol I like to think it's the first, but I'll be curious to see what happens after the baby comes.
We have talked a bit about when to continue DD post baby and I told him that I really don't want to wait more than a month. Things have been going so well and I have a fear of losing ground. We have seen such a positive side of what DD can bring to the marriage in the last year or so and neither of us want to go backwards. It's too important!
For the most part, we have always used the position of me laying on the bed and him standing as he spanks. This worked well, but with the increasing size of my belly, we have been using a different position where I lean over the side and he sits next to me and puts his arm across my lower back. It's as close to OTK as I can comfortably get, but I've been amazed at how much I prefer this position over anything else. It is much more personal because it allows him to keep contact with me while the spanking is taking place and he is able to help keep me in position (not that I move a ton anyway), but it's been a real security thing for me.
I dont know if it's the hormones or what, but the last several months I have really found myself looking at DD in a whole new light and really put some depth into it. I'm hoping that once things slow down around here I can take the time to share some of these things with you all here.
It's time for another dr. appt, so I'll be going. Thank you to those who continue to stop by! :)
April
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
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