Okay, I'm gonna have to admit that I get a laugh out of the comments laced with swearing and insults that people seem to think have even the slightest chance of getting posted here. The thing that really makes me laugh though are those who comment to blast my choice to live as a spanked wife in a God-honoring DD marriage. These people have told me that I'm going to hell, that I am sick, that I am crazy. Some have offered me help to get out of my "abusive marriage" and some have just blasted the lifestyle plain and simple. Okay, nay sayers, just how did you find this blog then? I'm pretty sure it didn't just pop up on your screen by accident. Nope, you had to type something into your search engine to get you here. So, please enlighten me, if this is so repulsive and evil in your opinion, then why are YOU SEARCHING it out?????? If you dont' like it and you don't want to read about it, then why are you here? I'm guessing it's because on some level you are intrigued that this lifestyle exsists and that there are normal, happy, loving couples who flourish in this life. So, leave your comments if you must and I'll reject them as I must. I won't defend my decision to live this life because ultimately that decision is between my husband, myself and God. If you are honest enough to admit you are intrigued, then I'll be happy to try and answer questions, but if you are just bored and looking for a place to cause trouble and get a rise out of someone, just picture me laughing on the other end of the screen at your ignorance of something you dont' understand and then go get a hobby :).
To all the legitimate readers, thanks for your patience as I took care of a bit of housekeeping. This blog is for my thoughts that I want to share with the community and I will not allow it to turn into a place filled with rants and insulting comments. I love the comments and greatly appreciate anyone who comes to read here with an honest interest in this lifstyle :).
Have a great week :)
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CONGRATS to you. You ahould not have to defend the lifestyle you chose to live. If most married couples took a long hard look at that marriage they would realise that LDD is just what they need. My husband and I have been practicing less than a year and it has saved our marriage. We barley fight anymore and our home is a happier home for our kids. So i thank you for having the courage to post this blog it is an inspiration to others.
I love it! If you guys are happy then God bless you! You're not hurting anyone, you're enjoying life, and I'm sure your lifestyle is not as "abnormal" as many people may think it is.
I think your critics (the ones who say you'll go to hell etc.) are just self righteous people who are jealous of your lifestyle. They are the true whackos.
Rock on! The CDD website has inspired me!
Thanks :)!
I like your blog and i agree with you..How did they end up here..Good luck and keep blogging.
I am not familar with this practice so I have a question for you. When the wife is disobediant the husband disciplines her but what happens when the husband is disobediant? Who disciplines him?
I've not posted here before but I wanted to say that I ended up on your blogs after reading a link on a message board for Army Wives. I don't know who the original poster was and why they posted it, but that is how I got here, and judging from the feed back on the message board I suspect that's where many of your haters are coming from.
Although I would personally not live this lifestyle I want to commend you for finding something that works for YOUR family. Everyone can always find faults in others because they see the same weakness in themselves.
Stay strong and God Bless.
I'm new here and I never "searched you out" as you put it. Links to this site are being posted all over the myspace parenting groups to inform people of the kinds of things that unfortunately go on in our society. i'm not a naysayer either, because I believe everyone has a right to decide for themselves what they will and will not accept. I just came to the site to see how this works and why people do it. it's called curiosity. I can't say anything to change your mind though. People's belief structures are impossible to alter once they're set
AS someone above already said you are an inspiration. You inspired me to start my own blog about my ldd relationship. Thank You SO MUCH.
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i read alot of spanking blogs, and it amazes me as well. People who have a problem with this are just jealous that they dont have someone who loves them enough to really give them what they want. why i bet the very thought makes them blush and wet themselves LMAO.i am a spanked wife i love it its not only sexy butvery defining(sic). N rarely punishes me but when he does i know ive slipped.otherwise i just liked to be spanked. do you like doing housework with a warm bum I DO!!!!!! great blog.next time someone gives you a neg- comment you should post (with their IRL lol)thier comment and write along stry about the spanking they are going to get.LMAO.
You go, girl! Very good response. Y'all are an inspriration to me, too.
Chula
OK - this is going to sound way out of left field, since I don't practice the lifestyle... But do you know how I can access the CDD.com store? The site seems to be members only now. Why? Because I wanted to buy the nightgowns. They're so very hard to find (their pretty and modest, but simple and feminine.) Or - do you know if the person who makes them has their own website away from Cdd.com?
Hi Michele,
If you'll send me your email address to myaprilstar@yahoo.com , I will see what I can do in finding that information for you :).
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