Thursday, August 21, 2008

Hello

No, I haven't fallen off the face of the planet. I've just used this summer as a break for some of my online activities.

Hunter and I have used this summer to really focus on just the trial and error of DD. By that I mean, we have spent a lot of time trying to figure out what best meets our needs. We have shared scenarios with each other and how each would like to see them handled in kind of a role playing way. We have both felt comfortable in taking a short break from time to time without upsetting the other.

I guess we have put more focus on communicating about DD rather than simply carrying it out. Like I said in my last post, DD is about so much more than just the act of spanking.

Hope everyone had a great summer. Thanks for stopping by :)!

April

2 comments:

Jen said...

April,

It is wonderful to see you posting again. I totally agree with you that DD is much more than just spanking. Spanking is simply one tool that my husband uses when I break on of our rules regarding health and safety - both mental and physical health and safety.

The rules were made to protect me and I feel cherished and loved once a spanking is over with. However, even without the spanking, he is the HOH and sets a good example for our children and me. He is a true leader. That is the most important part of it for me.

Hope you keep on posting. I love to read your writing.

Hugs,

Jen

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the note - was starting to worry that perhaps you had quite the blog or that something had happened.