My niece has this t-shirt that my SIL finds so cute. The front says "Daddy says No" and the back says, "But Mommy says Yes".
This weekend, we were out and saw a little girl wearing a shirt that said "Daddy is the boss.... until Mommy gets home."
It's no wonder so many of us feel in the minority by living in a male-led HOH marriage. The critics are hitting us right and left and now they are going after our daughters all in the name of humor.
TV is the same way. It seems as if the majority of sit-coms have the intelligent, organized, "get it done, soccer mom", but Dad is a bumbling idiot who has no idea what goes on in the house let alone any say in the matter.
Ladies, if we truly believe in this lifestyle and not only the DD part of it, but the very idea of the husband being the HOH, then boy do we have our work cut out for us in raising our daughters!
If anyone has any suggestions and/or stories of how they promote the HOH lifestyle in their homes, feel free to share :).
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Friday, January 2, 2009
Happy New Year!
Happy 2009!! May your year be filled with joy and may it be a time for growing and fulfillment!
I hope to blog a lot more in the coming year as my huband and I continue in this DD journey.
April
I hope to blog a lot more in the coming year as my huband and I continue in this DD journey.
April
Thursday, December 25, 2008
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!
May you all have a blessed Christmas filled with memories made with family and friends.
I wish the best for all of you in 2009!!
God Bless!
April
JESUS! The Reason for the season!!
I wish the best for all of you in 2009!!
God Bless!
April
JESUS! The Reason for the season!!
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Happy Thanksgiving!!!
I know it's a day early and that I have a Christmas background, but I didnt want to forget to make a post for Thanksgiving!
I hope you all have a wonderfully blessed Thanksgiving surrounded by those you love! We have so much to be thankful for!
I am thankful for my wonderful husband who despite his reservations attempts to live this DD lifestyle with me. We have our ups and downs, but it has been a great asset to our marriage.
I am thankful for my beautiful children that remind me so much about what is important in life and how unconditional love can be a reality.
I am thankful for the freedoms we enjoy here in this country. The freedom to gather and worship God openly in any way we choose. The freedom to vote, to speak my mind, to education, etc...
I am thankful for the men, women and their families who sacrifice daily to protect this country or sacrifice time with their loved one so that they can protect our liberties.
I am thankful for my friends here, who care about me despite my short-comings but encourage me anyway.
Happy Thanksgiving and God bless!!
April
I hope you all have a wonderfully blessed Thanksgiving surrounded by those you love! We have so much to be thankful for!
I am thankful for my wonderful husband who despite his reservations attempts to live this DD lifestyle with me. We have our ups and downs, but it has been a great asset to our marriage.
I am thankful for my beautiful children that remind me so much about what is important in life and how unconditional love can be a reality.
I am thankful for the freedoms we enjoy here in this country. The freedom to gather and worship God openly in any way we choose. The freedom to vote, to speak my mind, to education, etc...
I am thankful for the men, women and their families who sacrifice daily to protect this country or sacrifice time with their loved one so that they can protect our liberties.
I am thankful for my friends here, who care about me despite my short-comings but encourage me anyway.
Happy Thanksgiving and God bless!!
April
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
A Meme
1. I give you money and send you into the grocery store to pick up 5 items. You can only pick one thing from the following departments, what is it?
Produce: Strawberries
Frozen: Pizza
Meat: Ground Beef
Dairy: Cheese
Can Goods: SpaghettiO's
2.Let's say you're heading out for a weekend getaway. You're only allowed to bring 3 articles of clothing with you. So, what's in your bag?
If it's just me and my husband..... pair of panties, bra, and a dress
3.If I was to listen in on one of your conversations throughout the day, what 4 phrases or words would I be most likely to hear?
"_________, leave your sister alone."
"What did Mommy say?"
"Stop touching each other."
"Go ask your dad!"
4.So, what 4 things do you find yourself doing every single day, and if you didn't get to do, you probably wouldn't be in the best mood?
Spending time w/ my husband and kids
Going online
Eating
Sleeping
5. You're driving down the road, and suddenly you're hit with this sense of road rage. What 3 factors probably contributed to it?
Cars that are tailgating me
People who change lanes without looking
People driving 30 mph, in a 65mph zone
6. You just scored a whole afternoon to yourself. We're talking a 3 hour block with nobody around. What 5 activities might we find you doing?
3 WHOLE HOURS??? WOW! Ummmm.....
Reading a book
Working on my latest story
Playing on the computer
Taking a nap
Watching a favorite movie
7. We're going to the zoo. But, it looks like it could start storming, so it'll have to be a quick visit. What 3 exhibits do we have to get to?
Whatever the top three picks of the kids are
8. You just scored tickets to the taping of any show that comes on t.v. of your choice. You can pick 4, so what are you going to see?
Summer Olympics (gymnastics!)
Dr. Phil
The Cosby Show
CSI
9. You're hungry for ice cream. I'll give you a triple dipper ice cream cone. What 3 flavors can I pile on for ya?
Mint Chocolate Chip
Cherry Nut
Chocolate
10. Somebody stole your purse/wallet…in order to get it back, you have to name 5 things you know are inside to claim it. So, what's in there?
wallet, checkbook, family pictures, gum, and lotion
11. You are at a job fair, and asked in what areas you are interested in pursuing a career. Let's pretend you have every talent and ability to be whatever you wanted, so what 4 careers would be fun for you?
Counselor
Author
Photographer
Chef
12. If you could go back and talk to the old you, when you were in high school, and inform yourself of 4 things, what would you say?
You are not guranteed tomorrow to tell the ones you love how you feel about them.
Sweeping uncomfortable topics under the rug does not make them disappear, they will rear their head again, no matter how far you think you bury them.
Your family may be your biology, but your biology does not have to be your biography.
Take time to appreciate the little things around you.
April
Produce: Strawberries
Frozen: Pizza
Meat: Ground Beef
Dairy: Cheese
Can Goods: SpaghettiO's
2.Let's say you're heading out for a weekend getaway. You're only allowed to bring 3 articles of clothing with you. So, what's in your bag?
If it's just me and my husband..... pair of panties, bra, and a dress
3.If I was to listen in on one of your conversations throughout the day, what 4 phrases or words would I be most likely to hear?
"_________, leave your sister alone."
"What did Mommy say?"
"Stop touching each other."
"Go ask your dad!"
4.So, what 4 things do you find yourself doing every single day, and if you didn't get to do, you probably wouldn't be in the best mood?
Spending time w/ my husband and kids
Going online
Eating
Sleeping
5. You're driving down the road, and suddenly you're hit with this sense of road rage. What 3 factors probably contributed to it?
Cars that are tailgating me
People who change lanes without looking
People driving 30 mph, in a 65mph zone
6. You just scored a whole afternoon to yourself. We're talking a 3 hour block with nobody around. What 5 activities might we find you doing?
3 WHOLE HOURS??? WOW! Ummmm.....
Reading a book
Working on my latest story
Playing on the computer
Taking a nap
Watching a favorite movie
7. We're going to the zoo. But, it looks like it could start storming, so it'll have to be a quick visit. What 3 exhibits do we have to get to?
Whatever the top three picks of the kids are
8. You just scored tickets to the taping of any show that comes on t.v. of your choice. You can pick 4, so what are you going to see?
Summer Olympics (gymnastics!)
Dr. Phil
The Cosby Show
CSI
9. You're hungry for ice cream. I'll give you a triple dipper ice cream cone. What 3 flavors can I pile on for ya?
Mint Chocolate Chip
Cherry Nut
Chocolate
10. Somebody stole your purse/wallet…in order to get it back, you have to name 5 things you know are inside to claim it. So, what's in there?
wallet, checkbook, family pictures, gum, and lotion
11. You are at a job fair, and asked in what areas you are interested in pursuing a career. Let's pretend you have every talent and ability to be whatever you wanted, so what 4 careers would be fun for you?
Counselor
Author
Photographer
Chef
12. If you could go back and talk to the old you, when you were in high school, and inform yourself of 4 things, what would you say?
You are not guranteed tomorrow to tell the ones you love how you feel about them.
Sweeping uncomfortable topics under the rug does not make them disappear, they will rear their head again, no matter how far you think you bury them.
Your family may be your biology, but your biology does not have to be your biography.
Take time to appreciate the little things around you.
April
Happy Veteran's Day!
HOLY CRAP! ... I forgot we had that thing!
Well, since I've heard rumors that it's "Love Our Lurkers Day", I figured I'd add a real DD post for any lurkers I may have left out there :).
Have you ever had one of those moments during a spanking when you're expecting one thing to impact your posterior region and what actually ends up striking there causes you to think very quickly "Holy Crap, I forgot we had that thing and I'm in BIG trouble now!! " ? I had one of those moments this weekend.
First off, I have to start by telling you about two implements we bought a few months back. Unfortunately, I have no idea how to resize pics to fit here from my digital camera or I' d post a few pics. The first one is a maple paddle about 18 inches long from tip to tip and has holes on the business end which is about 5 inches long. It packs a pretty good sting. The second one is the one that caused this thought to go through my head though. It's a rubber strap with a large wooden handle. The strap itself is about 18 inches long and 4 inches wide. That is a LOT of coverage!! Oh my word!
So, this weekend, my husband was spanking for the recurring laundry problem that exists in this house. He is spanking and I'm squirming of course and then he says.. "Here's a little extra for you since this is a continual problem here." Now I'm expecting one of two implements, the horrid giant bathbrush or the strapwrench. The evil rubber strap never entered my mind. I had forgotten we even had it as it is saved for very serious points. Well, I remembered real quick the second that thing landed on my bare backside!!! Holy cow!! Let's just say, the laundry is now caught up and I'm looking for a good buy on feather pillows and frozen peas!
Thanks for stopping by :)
April
Have you ever had one of those moments during a spanking when you're expecting one thing to impact your posterior region and what actually ends up striking there causes you to think very quickly "Holy Crap, I forgot we had that thing and I'm in BIG trouble now!! " ? I had one of those moments this weekend.
First off, I have to start by telling you about two implements we bought a few months back. Unfortunately, I have no idea how to resize pics to fit here from my digital camera or I' d post a few pics. The first one is a maple paddle about 18 inches long from tip to tip and has holes on the business end which is about 5 inches long. It packs a pretty good sting. The second one is the one that caused this thought to go through my head though. It's a rubber strap with a large wooden handle. The strap itself is about 18 inches long and 4 inches wide. That is a LOT of coverage!! Oh my word!
So, this weekend, my husband was spanking for the recurring laundry problem that exists in this house. He is spanking and I'm squirming of course and then he says.. "Here's a little extra for you since this is a continual problem here." Now I'm expecting one of two implements, the horrid giant bathbrush or the strapwrench. The evil rubber strap never entered my mind. I had forgotten we even had it as it is saved for very serious points. Well, I remembered real quick the second that thing landed on my bare backside!!! Holy cow!! Let's just say, the laundry is now caught up and I'm looking for a good buy on feather pillows and frozen peas!
Thanks for stopping by :)
April
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